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Coming out as monogamous, will people think I’m boring… am I boring?

With all the wonderful sexual exploration and focus on open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, swinging and more, it could be tempting to think that by being in a long-term monogamous relationship you might be missing out on something, or be perceived as a bit… boring. What happened to those youthful ideals of freedom, joy and sexual abandon? Well, let’s start...

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My Confession by Annabel Bruges

I have this amazing full-length dress that makes me shudder in excitement when I see it. The memory of the first time I wore it out is etched onto my erotic brain. Made wholly of latex, it is long, dropping from neck-to-ankle and is a deep metallic gun-metal grey. Corseted with metal buckles that cinch in my waist accentuating...

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Tattoos – colour me beautiful, a passion for ink

For many years, getting a tattoo was seen as an act of rebellion, westerners who wore tattoos in prominent places tended to come from ‘edgy’ portions of society: teddy boys, Hells Angels and rock musicians. Tattooing has its origins much further back in history and in some countries was very commonplace. Maori’s and the natives of Hawaii decorate their...

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How to talk dirty with your partner

Often we think of two main orifices when it comes to sex, but what about our mouths? The term “dirty talk” is a vague one. Does it mean demeaning someone? Calling them a dirty cum slut? Is it more of romantic erotic literature or a reputation of ‘you like that’s?’ Dirty talk sometimes feels like sexual improv, which can...

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What is it like living with Endometriosis?

Endometriosis can be a painful and often debilitating condition where tissues similar to the lining of the uterus (Endometrium) grow outside the womb yet still behave as if they were part of the menstrual cycle—thickening, breaking down and shedding once a month in a painful way—bleeding where there’s no escape through the cervix or vagina. The symptoms associated with...

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My Confession by BiHubby

Let’s start with some important and juicy background information to make this confession clearer. It’s been roughly two years since I’ve opened up to my wife by sharing my fantasies about secret bi-curiosity feelings I have. My wife is 35, short and surely the one choice I will never regret. We have been married now for roughly 12 years...

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Like the idea of sexting, here’s some tips on sexting etiquette

So what exacting is sexting? Sexting is a way to indulge in some sexy time action through sending and receiving explicit messages, whether that’s sexy images, text or voice. It’s used primarily to turn both sender and recipient on sexually so the very first thing we have to talk about is… Yes, you’ve guessed it—consent! You can’t send anyone sexual...

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My Confession by Captainjack

It all began as a Google search. My wife had read all of the 50 Shades of Grey books and taken me to all of the erotic movies. As a man, the movies were but an appetizer. I didn’t know just how much of E.L. James’ books were a fantasy for my wife or how much were her actual...

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