What do you call it? Wanking? Tossing? Tugging? Jerking? Spanking the monkey?! (I hate that one). Masturbation is very rarely called by its ‘actual name’ by penis-owners and I’ve always wondered why so many people have collectively got to the same almost infantile place. I’ve worked in the sex toy industry for over 13 years now and spoken to...
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Our wedding day was coming up very soon. Her dress bought, my tux rented, and my wedding party picked. As the day came closer we became more sexually active. We both came from Catholic families and went to Catholic school where sex was taboo, we had to wait until we were married. Well, the closer the day came, things...
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It goes by many names. The clitoris. The clit. The pleasure button. Or even the little man in the boat. It doesn’t matter what you call it, the clitoris is one of the most sexually sensitive areas on any body. But it’s also shrouded in a veil of mystery and shame. What many don’t realise is that the clitoris...
Read MoreBeing pregnant is a beautiful thing. You’re in bloom and looking all glowy despite the stomach-churning bouts of morning sickness or the constant and urgent need to empty your bladder that many experience. For lots of people, being pregnant is a time to celebrate. You’re carrying a child; you have the perfect excuse to overindulge in all the naughty...
Read MoreJust what is it about witnessing the passion between two (or more!) women that drives us wild? Watching the beautiful curves move and writhe in delicious symmetry, long slim fingers sliding into juicy wet pussies, can be a huge turn-on for anybody and we invite you to indulge your lady lust fantasy with this roundup of our favourite lesbian...
Read MoreWhen we think and talk about sex, often the focus is about what’s going on in between our legs. When in fact we know that the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain, and one of the most critical ways of using it, is our mouths. So it’s no surprise that experts in the relationship therapy space...
Read MoreJonathan Aldfrith explains what erotic writing and sexual creativity has meant to him, how it helped him recover from major surgery and why he feels it is intrinsically linked to wellbeing. It’s a pretty sobering thought when you hear the words: “If I don’t operate within the next few hours you will die.” I didn’t die as that operation...
Read MoreIt’s time we threw a very harmful myth out with the trash: Women like sex less than men do. The idea that women like sex less than men is rooted in a lack of proper understanding of HOW female sexual desire works. It has nothing to do with a woman (or vulva-owner’s) ability to experience sexual pleasure and orgasm....
Read MoreYou’ve been learning about morning sickness, painful breasts, Braxton Hicks, piles, labour, lactation, all the changes your body will go through, but did anyone talk about the pleasures of sex in pregnancy? You may have been told by your Dr, midwife or health professional that it is fine to have sex during pregnancy – unless you have a medical...
Read MoreMy husband and I had been having a love affair with a single woman off and on for about two years. This event, which took place after we hadn’t been together for about six months as she was dating someone else. She’d recently broken things off with him and had called to see what we were doing. We’d gone...
Read MoreOne of the things 2020 tried to teach us was having a WAP is a good thing, desirable even. Naturally, the next question on a lot of people’s lips would be, what on earth is a WAP? According to Cardi B, a WAP is a wet ass pussy but, the acronym also has another less than sexy meaning. In...
Read MoreTo celebrate inspirational women this International Women’s Day or #IWD2021 we thought this year we’d share some of the wonderful women we’ve worked with this year in the magazine and how they inspire us! We’ve limited this to five but honestly, ALL the women we work with are our heroes. Sherryl Blu Sherryl is one of the most inspirational people we’ve...
Read MoreSex toys—or marital aids as they used to be called are an incredible way to enhance your sexual experience—either alone or with your lover—or lovers! There are so many wonderful sex toys available at the moment and so many different ways to use them, we thought we’d put together a list of our favourite films, featuring the pleasure of sex...
Read MoreIf you’re in a long-term relationship and living together, chances are your sex life may take dips every now and then. Let’s face it, now more than ever we may be experiencing fatigue and a drop in libido. Well, we’re here to tell you of a quick and gentle way to rekindle your sex life with some simple hacks...
Read MoreWhen we talk about masturbating now, most of us don’t immediately think of women. Instead, the term conjures up ideas of men, who we often consider as the more overtly sexual gender. For ancient and medieval people, however, onanism, the Latin term for wanking, was perhaps more likely to be associated with women. Indeed, women were considered to be...
Read MoreMy confession involves a teacher. A truly hot teacher. She was one of those teachers you always wanted to get when the timetables were handed out at the start of the academic year. Every boy wanted to be taught by her, because she had a stunning figure. And she wore clothes that showed it off brilliantly. Plus serious heels....
Read MoreOne piece of research found one in three couples enjoy light kink and BDSM in the bedroom. Another recent study found 2/3 of women surveyed enjoy spanking. Kink and BDSM are not nearly as rare as you might think. Even so, many people find it almost impossible to talk with their partner(s) about these desires and even harder to ask...
Read MoreWith all the wonderful sexual exploration and focus on open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, swinging and more, it could be tempting to think that by being in a long-term monogamous relationship you might be missing out on something, or be perceived as a bit… boring. What happened to those youthful ideals of freedom, joy and sexual abandon? Well, let’s start...
Read MoreSo, blowjobs in porn—what does the image conjure up? An act of submission? A power play? Who is in charge when it comes to the art of fellatio? The giver? The receiver? It can seem sometimes quite a brutal act with hands entangled in hair and a hard cock thrusting deep into someone’s throat. Face fucking might look like...
Read MoreI have this amazing full-length dress that makes me shudder in excitement when I see it. The memory of the first time I wore it out is etched onto my erotic brain. Made wholly of latex, it is long, dropping from neck-to-ankle and is a deep metallic gun-metal grey. Corseted with metal buckles that cinch in my waist accentuating...
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