“Confidence is sexy!” You’ve almost certainly heard some variation on this phrase at some point. Perhaps you’ve heard that it doesn’t matter how you look or how experienced you are in the bedroom, as your confidence is the main thing that will turn your partner on. I’m a big fan of sexual confidence. In my experience, it can both make...
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A lot of us have been taught to feel guilty about masturbating, whether by our families, our religion, or society at large. But not only does masturbation rarely carry any harm; it can actually be good for you, both physically and mentally. In case you need help assuaging any hesitations you may have around masturbation, here’s a data-based guide...
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Most of us have heard the term in some capacity, but how many of us know what it actually means? If pushed, those that aren’t massively familiar with the term would be able to identify a Kegel as something that relates to stopping the need to pee when you sneeze. Or, more in line with our desire for the...
Read MoreI’m face down on the bed. My breathing quickens, my heartbeat thuds in my chest almost bouncing me off the mattress. He rubs the skin on my buttocks firmly and says, “I’m going to get straight down to business, if you agree?” I nod hardly able to speak. He tells me I will receive three strikes with the cane...
Read MoreSometimes your natural vaginal lubrication levels fluctuate and it often has nothing to do with how aroused you are feeling—it may just be your cycle, hormone levels, menopause, or just a different time of the day. Personal lubricants have been around for many years and it takes a bit of research and time to discern what will be best...
Read MoreAn orgasm a day….keeps the doctor away, sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t! Sex and orgasms are brilliant for you, no matter how you identify, who you go to bed with, or what’s between your legs. Orgasms are really great for your health, both physically and mentally. Before we dive into the medical whys and wherefores...
Read MoreWe were all expats doing international development work and living in a strict and religiously conservative country in Asia. It was the final week of a hot summer. Impromptu cocktails on Natasha’s balcony had turned into an impromptu dinner party and everyone breaking out the illicit booze that they had bought in duty-free shops or had brought back from...
Read MoreWith apps basically running our lives, where would we be without them? Fitness tracking, period monitors, calendars, recipes, relaxation, you name it there’s an app for everything! But what about sex? We know of course of the sex apps that help us find quick sex whenever and wherever we may be, think Tinder, Grindr, OKCupid etc. But there are so many more...
Read MoreSometimes when we watch someone orgasm we might be wondering, was it good? Did they have a knee-trembler, or was it experienced internally, not a big show of convulsions, squealing, and shuddering out groans of fuck and satisfaction. Well, here are five erotic films where it is very clear just how much fun was had and bodies are left...
Read MoreSexual fantasies are defined by any mental imagery that is sexually arousing or erotic to the individual. Some common fantasies include threesomes, partner swapping, BDSM, and same-gender sex. A fantasy is first and foremost a ‘thought,’ which means it doesn’t have to become an actual thing you do in real life, and most of my clients don’t actually want...
Read MoreStill unsure about whether you should treat a loved one to one of our gift-for-lovers voucher subscriptions? We thought we’d tempt you with a round-up of erotic sexy films, some of our favourite and most adventurous couples fucking of this past year, for an erotic trip down memory lane and to give you a glimpse of things to come....
Read MoreMy wife likes me to go down on her before we go out in the evening. It always seems to add an extra sparkle to her eyes. I enter the bedroom where my wife is getting ready. She’s wearing sexy lingerie that she knows excites me, an extra low-cut bra which supports but doesn’t reach as high as her...
Read MoreAccording to the “Summer of Love” survey conducted by sex toy company, Lovehoney, and the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, the sexual interests of Americans have gotten steamier amid the pandemic. The majority (51%) of the survey’s respondents indicate that couples have gotten more experimental in the bedroom. Though the study didn’t go into specifics on how the respondents...
Read MoreYou may have noticed our recent magazine articles on sex in pregnancy and beautiful erotic films on pregnancy sex about sex in pregnancy, but what is it really like? We asked how you found sex in pregnancy and the results were varied but all had one thing in common, earth shattering libido boosting, or no thank you, sex was definitely different!...
Read MoreIf you’re in the Northern Hemisphere, you must have noticed the distinct autumn chill, having you reach for that jacket or extra jumper. Well, with the nights beginning to draw in we thought we’d remind you of a joyous fact – wearing socks during sex can not only increase your chance of orgasming but also make them stronger! That’s...
Read MoreThis article is a follow on from my previous one, where I discuss penis pleasure. And what’s the end-goal of most masturbation? Orgasms. Penis orgasms aren’t quite as basic as you think – and the more you explore, the more to learn. So, let’s me talk you through a few steps I’ve learned over the years, from my own...
Read MoreWhen we think about history of sex toys, we tend to think that they are a modern invention. After all, until very recently they were still incredibly taboo, and the sort of thing that only ever showed up in media as a punchline in movies and sitcoms. While the harnessing of electricity certainly means we now have a range...
Read MoreMy name is Jane. I am happily married to Dick and we have a monogamous marriage with one exception—we have ‘sexy play’ with another real couple, Erica and Bob. When I say sexy play—we find ways to get naked then have innocent fun, limited to massaging, touching, spanking and fondling. No deep kissing, no penetration, nothing but fun touching....
Read MoreWith the current combination of the internet crammed with sex and sex acts being easy to stumble upon and yet, also entirely full of good sex and sexual wellbeing censorship, it can be increasingly hard for the discerning sex film lover to find and access good erotic content that doesn’t have you worrying what might pop up next. So...
Read MoreYou may be familiar with that tingle and rush if someone runs their fingers through your hair or nibbles at that spot just behind your ear. Or do your knees go week when someone lightly peppers your inner elbow with their fingertips? How about that spark of electricity cascading in torrents if someone kisses your shoulders. What on earth...
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