My lesbian neighbour sex confession… It was September last year when she moved into the neighbourhood. She knocked on our door one Saturday morning. Tomi and I were still in bed. Thinking it was a delivery, I’d got up and answered the door in my underwear. Tomi liked it when I did that —seeing the person’s reaction and then...
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The holiday season is a time to spend with loved ones… but attention should definitely be paid to a more sexy kind of loving too! Indulging your sexy side with yourself or your partner is a great idea for the ultimate festive spice. You might only have a stolen moment to grab a quickie between playing Santa and buying...
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With the cost of living soaring and monies tight, we thought we’d share with you seven sexy tips and ideas for keeping things hot and spicy on a budget at Christmas. 1—Lingerie look up. Instead of buying new undies… why not take a good rummage in your own drawers and wardrobes? We all hoard the odd pair of sexy...
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You may already be au fait with the delights of the derriere, but if you are curious, we thought we’d feature the joys of anal fun and how to use a butt plug. Firstly, the term ‘butt plug’ is such an unsexy name for what can be a truly sumptuous sensual experience. Put simply; a butt plug is a...
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Prostates are finally getting their time in the sexual sun in recent years as our concept and understanding of pleasure continue to broaden beyond penis-in-vagina sex. What is the prostate? Often referred to as the ‘G Spot for penises’, prostate stimulation is touted as a way to experience more intense orgasms, but that’s not the only reason you should...
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Polyamory explained What is polyamory? And is it for me? If you haven’t heard of polyamory you’ve probably been living under a rock. The definitions and descriptions of the many different sexualities, gender orientations, who you’re attracted to and, of course, relationship styles have exploded rather delightfully over the past few years. Both media and literature are full of relatively...
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Researchers have researched, studies have studied, and scientists have attempted to apply science in a bid to understand the amazingness of the female orgasm. The female orgasm is a huge area of interest, and it’s not hard to see why. A woman’s body is a hot map of pleasure, complete with a plethora of erogenous zones that, once stimulated, can provide an...
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For a long time, I had a fantasy of being completely nude in front of a room full of women but I had never done anything about it. This is my exhibitionist sex confession. After seeing an advert one day for life models for an art class, I was surprised when my partner suggested I do it. She was...
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Content warning: this article discusses self-harm and mental health difficulties Sex and well-being are subjects we have written about several times at FrolicMe. We are passionate about promoting the benefits associated with sexual pleasure, from the lift to our general mood and spirit to the endorphins released. We particularly love the uptick in libido and the sense of relaxation...
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Oh, the threesome. It’s like an urban legend. Those who’ve experienced its charms bask in them. Those who’ve experienced its cutting edge regret ever doing it. And folks who’ve never had the privilege, dream of it with their hands down their pants. The fact is, threesomes are a recurring fantasy for many of those who have and have not...
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I tread carefully up the gravel driveway in my heels and tight dress. “Are you sure this is the right place?” I ask my partner nervously. This little countryside semi-detached looks far too innocent surely? My nerves are palpable, and thighs still trembling from the passionate warm up fuck with him as we got ready. He’d spied me peeling...
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Sometimes their ass looks good enough to eat, doesn’t it? And I say: EAT IT. Rimming is one of my personal favourite sexual activities. It quenches parts of my mind-body-and-soul that I didn’t know existed before I’d tried it. For those of you who aren’t privy to what I am talking about, ‘Rimming’ (or ‘Analingus’, by dictionary definition) is...
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When you think of foreplay, you may imagine steamy windows and heavy breathing, hands and lips touching everywhere. We easily describe these acts as foreplay. After all, the traditional definition of the word, according to the Oxford Dictionary, is “sexual activity, such as touching the sexual organs and kissing, that takes place before people have sex.” And here’s where the problem...
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“Confidence is sexy!” You’ve almost certainly heard some variation on this phrase at some point. Perhaps you’ve heard that it doesn’t matter how you look or how experienced you are in the bedroom, as your confidence is the main thing that will turn your partner on. I’m a big fan of sexual confidence. In my experience, it can both make...
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A lot of us have been taught to feel guilty about masturbating, whether by our families, our religion, or society at large. But not only does masturbation rarely carry any harm; it can actually be good for you, both physically and mentally. In case you need help assuaging any hesitations you may have around masturbation, here’s a data-based guide...
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Most of us have heard the term in some capacity, but how many of us know what it actually means? If pushed, those that aren’t massively familiar with the term would be able to identify a Kegel as something that relates to stopping the need to pee when you sneeze. Or, more in line with our desire for the...
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I’m face down on the bed. My breathing quickens, my heartbeat thuds in my chest almost bouncing me off the mattress. He rubs the skin on my buttocks firmly and says, “I’m going to get straight down to business, if you agree?” I nod hardly able to speak. He tells me I will receive three strikes with the cane...
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Sometimes your natural vaginal lubrication levels fluctuate and it often has nothing to do with how aroused you are feeling—it may just be your cycle, hormone levels, menopause, or just a different time of the day. Personal lubricants have been around for many years and it takes a bit of research and time to discern what will be best...
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An orgasm a day….keeps the doctor away, sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t! Sex and orgasms are brilliant for you, no matter how you identify, who you go to bed with, or what’s between your legs. Orgasms are really great for your health, both physically and mentally. Before we dive into the medical whys and wherefores...
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We were all expats doing international development work and living in a strict and religiously conservative country in Asia. It was the final week of a hot summer. Impromptu cocktails on Natasha’s balcony had turned into an impromptu dinner party and everyone breaking out the illicit booze that they had bought in duty-free shops or had brought back from...
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