Kissing aside, I think hand jobs are one of the most underrated sex acts. They certainly have been for me, at any rate: an ex-partner once told me that hand jobs are like making a cup of tea because “it’s nice when someone does it for you, but they’ll never do it as well as you can.” Because of...
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My fingers were trembling as I pressed the keys on my phone to make the call. “I’ve parked up as you said, Mistress.” “Very good, Eve. When you leave the car park, follow the alleyway to the left. The first gate on the right is mine. Go through there. The back door is open.” “Yes, Mistress” I did as I was...
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U up?: The perils (and pleasures) of embracing the booty call What exactly is a booty call? Although the cliché is a simple ‘u up?’ text from an ex-lover in the wee hours of the morning, booty calls can come in all shapes and sizes—from the impulsive (and maybe intoxicated) voicemail at 2am to the long-winded email from someone...
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I graduated AIT Medic training in 1986, and after a brief leave I arrived at my permanent party duty station in Germany on January 4th 1987. I had turned 18 in July of the previous summer. The other troops were around my age and all were welcoming me into the detachment. There were only ten women and nearly 35...
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When should sex education begin? Many of us will have an idea in our heads of the ‘birds and the bees’ talk—a brief and possibly awkward overview of how babies are made, delivered just a year or two before we become physically capable of making them ourselves. But ‘sex education for children is actually a bit of a misnomer....
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“Breathe like your pleasure depends on it. Because it does.” Wise words from Sexologist and author of Urban Tantra, Barbara Carrellas, when explaining Tantra on the Curious Fox podcast. But what does it really mean to breathe into pleasure? And how can we harness the breath work to heighten arousal, create deeper connections, and even trigger stronger orgasms? Using...
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Is painful sex normal? The short answer is a resounding “no”. While pain during intercourse might be prevalent, it certainly isn’t normal and shouldn’t be ignored. Unfortunately, painful sex (the medical term being dyspareunia) is quite common and many people who are assigned female at birth experience discomfort during sex for a multitude of reasons. As many as 75%...
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Many people believe that sex should be spontaneous, and scheduling it takes away passion and excitement. You may be thinking, “Are we really to the point that THIS is what our sex life looks like… an appointment on a calendar?” However, scheduling sex doesn’t have to feel like a chore to check off your to-do list. Contrary to popular...
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Many people find the prospect of any kind of therapy daunting, but relationship therapy can help you learn so much about one another—and yourself. For over 15 years I have had the privilege of guiding couples through transformational therapy that creates deep, meaningful change for them as individuals as well as their partnerships. But when is the best time to seek expert...
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As we round off Masturbation May, we thought we’d feature some of our very favourite masturbation movies 2024 and articles to help you on your way with personal pleasure – heaven! Masturbation is one of life’s true joys, an intimate moment where you get to decide every single nuance of your rise to orgasm. FrolicMe is dedicated to offering...
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There is no denying that the pleasurable sensations many experience when eating something they thoroughly enjoy are somewhat comparable to the satisfaction they feel when engaging in sexual activity. foods that increase sex drive Entirely different physiological mechanisms govern both sensations; however, what occurs in the brain when it comes to the processing of pleasure is somewhat similar. In...
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What is Endometriosis? Endometriosis is a medical condition where tissue similar to the lining inside the womb (uterus) begins to grow outside of the uterus. This tissue can be found on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, bowel area and other organs within the pelvis and around the body. In the UK, around 1.5 million women and those assigned female at...
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The first time I masturbated, I used a pencil. It was one of those black and yellow HB pencils with a shiny red tip. My knowledge of sexual pleasure came from the late-night softcore Blue movies that channel 5 used to show after 10 pm, Sexcetera, Exotica Erotica, Emmanuel In Space On Sy-Fy (watched on the lowest possible volume...
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Over the years, Mrs H and I have enjoyed each other’s company. Mrs H is a lovely, petite woman with a radiant smile and a naughty twinkle in her eyes. Something about us always made me wonder if there was something deeper and more intimate. When we were together, her smile was even more radiant, and there was this...
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How long should sex last? Most of us instinctively understand that there is no ‘correct’ answer to that question. However, for many of us—people with penises in particular—there’s still a nagging feeling that stamina is high on the list of desirable qualities in a sexual partner. Coming too quickly—often called ‘premature ejaculation’ if you have a dick—can sometimes be...
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Some of my best sex has happened on my period. I’m lucky enough to only suffer painful cramps for one day, but the rest of the time I’m bleeding, I’m outrageously horny. It’s as if my body has turned a dial on arousal and suddenly what used to be a ‘want’ has become almost a ‘need.’ And I’m not...
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Je Joue, meaning ‘I play’ in French, is a sex-positive, independent, luxury sex toy brand. Because we have featured this beautiful little vibrator in one of our upcoming films, I was kindly sent two Vitas to review. Appearance The Je Joue Vita comes in an elegant and stylish drawer-style box, so you really feel like you are opening a gift....
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It was rush hour, and it was crowded in that car. Always is, and usually I hate it. Squeezed into a corner of the train, clinging desperately to the handrail above me as I’m surrounded by men and women coming home from work or shopping or whatever it is they did that dragged them out into the misery we...
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In the lyrics of Primal Scream “Just what is it that you want to do?” when it comes to sex, you know the answer—We wanna have a good time, and do what we wanna do! But as grown-up people we know that doing what and who we want comes with responsibilities to ourselves and each other. Consent and communication are the key components to...
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Having owned a sex toy store for five years, I know a thing or two about how to make the most of your toys. I very much appreciate the excitement of buying new pleasure objects, but I’m also a huge advocate for making the most of what you already have. You don’t always need to buy the latest release...
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