To deep throat or not to deep throat? That is the question everyone who gives a blowjob will have to answer at some point. There’s a common assumption that getting a dick to the back of your throat is one of the ultimate goals of a good BJ, but sometimes certain things get in the way of that—like, your...
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Our relationships to porn and masturbation can be very personal and highly emotional. Although many people will enjoy bringing porn into their romantic and sexual relationships, others prefer to keep their viewing, listening, or reading habits private, enjoying adult material only when they are on their own, without sharing those things with a partner. Some people don’t enjoy porn at...
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Forecasting predicts that by 2028, over 450 million people will be accessing online dating platforms to find love. As it stands, there are approximately 390 million users currently using websites and apps. So, it would appear that if you do want to date with the hope of finding love or just for a bit of fun, one of the...
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What is a striptease? Many women have fantasised about being a striptease artist. Standing spotlit on a stage, the centre of attention, slowly peeling off their clothes as to a sensuous beat… Lapdancing in a private booth, turning a wealthy and powerful man into a shuddering wreck… Or more romantically, putting on a show-for-one to surprise and delight a...
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Are you wondering how to have car sex? Let me first ask what the phrase ‘car sex’ conjures up for you? Is it old American movies where saucy couples get up to a bit of naughty necking at the drive-in? To be fair, a big, sturdy US Caddy with a bench seat offers quite a different opportunity for love...
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Are you suffering from sexual frustration? How do you find professional support to find and explore your true sexual self? Jonathan Aldfrith explains how professional help has transformed his sex life. After many years of experiencing sexual frustration and feeling unfulfilled, I decided that the best way to make changes to my rather dull sex life was to seek some...
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Well, it all happened so unexpectedly that it was just amazing. My roommate and I lived in a house next to a small two-unit apartment building. Our kitchen window was directly across from our two gorgeous Puerto Rican neighbours. They were about in their mid-twenties—dark-tanned with flowing dark hair, very curvy, and with very large breasts. Up to this...
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Kissing aside, I think hand jobs are one of the most underrated sex acts. They certainly have been for me, at any rate: an ex-partner once told me that hand jobs are like making a cup of tea because “it’s nice when someone does it for you, but they’ll never do it as well as you can.” Because of...
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My fingers were trembling as I pressed the keys on my phone to make the call. “I’ve parked up as you said, Mistress.” “Very good, Eve. When you leave the car park, follow the alleyway to the left. The first gate on the right is mine. Go through there. The back door is open.” “Yes, Mistress” I did as I was...
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U up?: The perils (and pleasures) of embracing the booty call What exactly is a booty call? Although the cliché is a simple ‘u up?’ text from an ex-lover in the wee hours of the morning, booty calls can come in all shapes and sizes—from the impulsive (and maybe intoxicated) voicemail at 2am to the long-winded email from someone...
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I graduated AIT Medic training in 1986, and after a brief leave I arrived at my permanent party duty station in Germany on January 4th 1987. I had turned 18 in July of the previous summer. The other troops were around my age and all were welcoming me into the detachment. There were only ten women and nearly 35...
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When should sex education begin? Many of us will have an idea in our heads of the ‘birds and the bees’ talk—a brief and possibly awkward overview of how babies are made, delivered just a year or two before we become physically capable of making them ourselves. But ‘sex education for children is actually a bit of a misnomer....
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“Breathe like your pleasure depends on it. Because it does.” Wise words from Sexologist and author of Urban Tantra, Barbara Carrellas, when explaining Tantra on the Curious Fox podcast. But what does it really mean to breathe into pleasure? And how can we harness the breath work to heighten arousal, create deeper connections, and even trigger stronger orgasms? Using...
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Is painful sex normal? The short answer is a resounding “no”. While pain during intercourse might be prevalent, it certainly isn’t normal and shouldn’t be ignored. Unfortunately, painful sex (the medical term being dyspareunia) is quite common and many people who are assigned female at birth experience discomfort during sex for a multitude of reasons. As many as 75%...
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Many people believe that sex should be spontaneous, and scheduling it takes away passion and excitement. You may be thinking, “Are we really to the point that THIS is what our sex life looks like… an appointment on a calendar?” However, scheduling sex doesn’t have to feel like a chore to check off your to-do list. Contrary to popular...
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Many people find the prospect of any kind of therapy daunting, but relationship therapy can help you learn so much about one another—and yourself. For over 15 years I have had the privilege of guiding couples through transformational therapy that creates deep, meaningful change for them as individuals as well as their partnerships. But when is the best time to seek expert...
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As we round off Masturbation May, we thought we’d feature some of our very favourite masturbation movies 2024 and articles to help you on your way with personal pleasure – heaven! Masturbation is one of life’s true joys, an intimate moment where you get to decide every single nuance of your rise to orgasm. FrolicMe is dedicated to offering...
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There is no denying that the pleasurable sensations many experience when eating something they thoroughly enjoy are somewhat comparable to the satisfaction they feel when engaging in sexual activity. foods that increase sex drive Entirely different physiological mechanisms govern both sensations; however, what occurs in the brain when it comes to the processing of pleasure is somewhat similar. In...
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What is Endometriosis? Endometriosis is a medical condition where tissue similar to the lining inside the womb (uterus) begins to grow outside of the uterus. This tissue can be found on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, bowel area and other organs within the pelvis and around the body. In the UK, around 1.5 million women and those assigned female at...
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The first time I masturbated, I used a pencil. It was one of those black and yellow HB pencils with a shiny red tip. My knowledge of sexual pleasure came from the late-night softcore Blue movies that channel 5 used to show after 10 pm, Sexcetera, Exotica Erotica, Emmanuel In Space On Sy-Fy (watched on the lowest possible volume...
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