What do we mean by sexual identity? And how do you understand your own? In this guide, we’ll talk you through some of the more common sexual identities, including a few terms to help describe feelings of romantic and sexual attraction, cover the difference between sexual attraction and gender identity, and give a few links to resources you might like...
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Birds do It… Bees do it… But do they really? We’re talking about fun facts this May for National Masturbation Month. National Masturbation Month is a global celebration of self-love in May and is older than you might think. Its inaugural year was 1995 when Joclyn Elders, the 15th Surgeon General of the USA, was ‘forced to resign’ after...
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If you are on the hunt for ways to enhance your overall love life, you may be intrigued to know that whilst zinc is often thought of as an immune boosting supplement, it can also offer a bunch of sexual benefits too. So, what is it about this micronutrient that can potentially invigorate your sex drive and help towards...
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Are you tempted by the thought of some hot, steamy shower sex? Worried about slipping or using sex toys while you’re in there? In this guide on how to have sex in the shower, we aim to give you the lowdown on how to get it on in the water while minimising the risk of accidents, which would definitely ruin...
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Revenge porn is a topic that has gathered increasing attention in recent years, and rightly so. With the proliferation of camera phones and websites where people can publicly post sexy photos and videos, publishing private sexual images has become a horrible new weapon used by sexual abusers to try and humiliate or otherwise harm people. In this guide we...
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Threesome confession. This true story is about our first threesome with her best friend. We were pastors at a local church, and she was the director of finance. It started with her, Gina, flirting with me, Pastor James. She would find any excuse to come to my office. Eventually, she confided that she found me and my beautiful bride,...
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If you’ve been looking for a way to spice up your sex life, wax play might just be the ticket. Yes, we’re talking about dripping literal wax over your partner for the purpose of enhancing pleasure. It might sound a bit intense and intimidating, but it’s quite an easy and straightforward way of increasing sexual excitement. Whether you’re a seasoned...
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Sex educator and pleasure journalist Tatyannah King shares some great tips and her own personal sexual explorations to advise us all on how to improve the quality and strength of our climaxes. It’s easy to fall into habits and the old, ‘if it ain’t broke’ mentality but Tatyannah urges us to stay sexually curious and reap the gloriously satisfying rewards for doing so. Stronger orgasms? Yes please! People commonly say that an apple a day keeps the doctor away, but an orgasm a...
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Whenever I have sessions with women about their low libido, they follow a similar pattern. They want to know if there’s a medication or magical supplement libido booster that will be the secret key to getting their sex drive back. Their low libido is negatively impacting their relationship, and they feel at a crisis as to what to do...
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When Samuel-Auguste Tissot published Onanism: A Treatise on the Maladies Produced by Masturbation in 1758, little did he know that it would have an impact on the history of masturbating and sexual practices for several centuries. In this catchily-titled tome, Tissot suggested that semen was a vital bodily fluid, a sort of finite life force, and that excessive loss of it through masturbation would result...
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It was many years ago; I was a single man in my early 20’s, working for a company that supplied products all over the world. I was asked to go to Austria to help with some training, initially I jumped at the chance, although not being an experienced traveller, was slightly apprehensive. Plans were made for me to fly...
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Ever felt excited by the idea of getting caught while having sex, or been excited knowing others might overhear your sexual encounter? Maybe you enjoy wearing provocative outfits, relishing the glances you attract, or finding it exciting that the thought of you arouses others. These experiences may hint at an exhibitionism kink. What is exhibitionism? Exhibitionism is a kink...
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Wait… did I just have a sex dream? Ever woken up with the deliciously naughty feeling you’ve been up to something saucy in your sleep? Maybe you’re still tingling all over from an unexplained orgasmic rush. Are there memories of erotic shenanigans flirting in the periphery of your waking mind? Maybe you’ve just experienced sex dreams! Suzannah Weiss is...
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The term sexless marriage carries a lot of weight, and often, there are a lot of unspoken feelings around it. Friends may talk about it after a couple of drinks; it’s often raised as a concern in therapy, and we even read about it in relationship columns. But what actually defines a sexless marriage or relationship? And, perhaps even more...
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Welcome to the hottest place to come for the very best ethical Valentine’s Day Porn. It’s the time of year when thoughts turn to Cupid and those arrows of desire. Here at FrolicMe, we like to set those love darts alight, so the passion is already burning ferociously before they even strike that sexy target! Whether you are in...
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Sensate Focus Do you feel out of sync with the intimate parts of your body? Has your pleasure taken a back seat? And has intimacy with others become a second thought, often rushed or a chore? Then you have arrived at the right place. We’re often so focused on getting through the day that we prioritise quick gratification rather...
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Did you ever feel an uncanny recognition for someone you didn’t know? Or felt like you knew someone already even though you had only just met? Do you feel deeply connected to your lover in ways you can’t explain? Maybe you’re experiencing a Soul Tie. Soul ties are deep spiritual connections between two people, often transcending time and space...
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Whether you call it an erection, boner, stiffy, or hard-on (the list goes on)… the erection is a symbol of virility and unbridled pleasure. The erection is monumentally associated with society and culture’s ideas of stereotypical masculinity, appearing everywhere from ancient art to religious imagery, and even becoming one of the most graffiti’d icons of all time. How many times can you...
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What’s the deal with unicorns and *gulp* unicorn sex? The term, ‘unicorn dating’ and ‘unicorn sex’ has become ubiquitous with the image of a bi-curious couple searching for an elusive and mystical bisexual woman who wants to get railed by two people who are already in a relationship. Imagine, if you will, a dating app profile that reads: “She’s...
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At some point in our lives, most of us experience an intense feeling of sexual attraction towards another. We may not understand what it is that actually draws us to that person; all we know is that we want them sexually! Sexual attraction is the surge of desire an individual feels based on several factors. Most people tend to...
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