Sexual identity: exploring your sexual and romantic desires
What do we mean by sexual identity? And how do you understand your own? In this guide, we’ll talk you through some of the more common sexual identities, including a few terms to help describe feelings of romantic and sexual attraction, cover the difference between sexual attraction and gender identity, and give a few links to resources you might like...
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National Masturbation Month facts to kick off your Spring pleasure
Birds do It… Bees do it… But do they really? We’re talking about fun facts this May for National Masturbation Month. National Masturbation Month is a global celebration of self-love in May and is older than you might think. Its inaugural year was 1995 when Joclyn Elders, the 15th Surgeon General of the USA, was ‘forced to resign’ after...
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Revenge porn: what it is and how you can report it
Revenge porn is a topic that has gathered increasing attention in recent years, and rightly so. With the proliferation of camera phones and websites where people can publicly post sexy photos and videos, publishing private sexual images has become a horrible new weapon used by sexual abusers to try and humiliate or otherwise harm people. In this guide we...
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How to do wax play? This might just be for you
If you’ve been looking for a way to spice up your sex life, wax play might just be the ticket. Yes, we’re talking about dripping literal wax over your partner for the purpose of enhancing pleasure. It might sound a bit intense and intimidating, but it’s quite an easy and straightforward way of increasing sexual excitement. Whether you’re a seasoned...
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Looking to boost your libido – start resting for better sex
Whenever I have sessions with women about their low libido, they follow a similar pattern. They want to know if there’s a medication or magical supplement libido booster that will be the secret key to getting their sex drive back. Their low libido is negatively impacting their relationship, and they feel at a crisis as to what to do...
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Historical handiwork: the rise and fall of masturbation
When Samuel-Auguste Tissot published Onanism: A Treatise on the Maladies Produced by Masturbation in 1758, little did he know that it would have an impact on the history of masturbating and sexual practices for several centuries. In this catchily-titled tome, Tissot suggested that semen was a vital bodily fluid, a sort of finite life force, and that excessive loss of it through masturbation would result...
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Exhibitionism: a breakdown and introduction
Ever felt excited by the idea of getting caught while having sex, or been excited knowing others might overhear your sexual encounter? Maybe you enjoy wearing provocative outfits, relishing the glances you attract, or finding it exciting that the thought of you arouses others. These experiences may hint at an exhibitionism kink. What is exhibitionism? Exhibitionism is a kink...
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What your sex dreams mean, according to dream analysts
Wait… did I just have a sex dream? Ever woken up with the deliciously naughty feeling you’ve been up to something saucy in your sleep? Maybe you’re still tingling all over from an unexplained orgasmic rush. Are there memories of erotic shenanigans flirting in the periphery of your waking mind? Maybe you’ve just experienced sex dreams! Suzannah Weiss is...
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When passion dies: sexless marriage and what you can do about it
The term sexless marriage carries a lot of weight, and often, there are a lot of unspoken feelings around it. Friends may talk about it after a couple of drinks; it’s often raised as a concern in therapy, and we even read about it in relationship columns. But what actually defines a sexless marriage or relationship? And, perhaps even more...
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Some of the hottest Valentine’s Day Porn
Welcome to the hottest place to come for the very best ethical Valentine’s Day Porn. It’s the time of year when thoughts turn to Cupid and those arrows of desire. Here at FrolicMe, we like to set those love darts alight, so the passion is already burning ferociously before they even strike that sexy target! Whether you are in...
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What is a soul tie? And is it good for you?
Did you ever feel an uncanny recognition for someone you didn’t know? Or felt like you knew someone already even though you had only just met? Do you feel deeply connected to your lover in ways you can’t explain? Maybe you’re experiencing a Soul Tie. Soul ties are deep spiritual connections between two people, often transcending time and space...
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A guide to unicorn sex and dating
What’s the deal with unicorns and *gulp* unicorn sex? The term, ‘unicorn dating’ and ‘unicorn sex’ has become ubiquitous with the image of a bi-curious couple searching for an elusive and mystical bisexual woman who wants to get railed by two people who are already in a relationship. Imagine, if you will, a dating app profile that reads: “She’s...
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Sexual attraction explained
At some point in our lives, most of us experience an intense feeling of sexual attraction towards another. We may not understand what it is that actually draws us to that person; all we know is that we want them sexually! Sexual attraction is the surge of desire an individual feels based on several factors. Most people tend to...
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Give a little sexy sparkle to someone special
Yes, that special time of year is getting close, and as we all know, Santa is coming, and we hope you are too! So here is something special to ensure you and your loved ones do, with this thoughtful and downright sexy as-hell gift for lovers you can even share. A Frolicme membership. We feel we all deserve a...
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Our Frolicme film favourites of 2024
Our writers here at FrolicMe play a big role in bringing the backstory of the films to life, offering insight into the characters’ minds and what drives them to having the hot sex that appears on screen. Inspired by Anna’s erotic movies and free reign to write for their favourites, who better to choose the top 2024 erotic movies!...
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Is watching porn cheating?
Our relationships to porn and masturbation can be very personal and highly emotional. Although many people will enjoy bringing porn into their romantic and sexual relationships, others prefer to keep their viewing, listening, or reading habits private, enjoying adult material only when they are on their own, without sharing those things with a partner. Some people don’t enjoy porn at...
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All the dating terms you need to know
Forecasting predicts that by 2028, over 450 million people will be accessing online dating platforms to find love. As it stands, there are approximately 390 million users currently using websites and apps. So, it would appear that if you do want to date with the hope of finding love or just for a bit of fun, one of the...
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Sexual therapy – how to reset your sex life
Are you suffering from sexual frustration? How do you find professional support to find and explore your true sexual self? Jonathan Aldfrith explains how professional help has transformed his sex life. After many years of experiencing sexual frustration and feeling unfulfilled, I decided that the best way to make changes to my rather dull sex life was to seek some...
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Why do women visit pro dommes?
My fingers were trembling as I pressed the keys on my phone to make the call. “I’ve parked up as you said, Mistress.” “Very good, Eve. When you leave the car park, follow the alleyway to the left. The first gate on the right is mine. Go through there. The back door is open.” “Yes, Mistress” I did as I was...
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Booty call – how do we navigate it?
U up?: The perils (and pleasures) of embracing the booty call What exactly is a booty call? Although the cliché is a simple ‘u up?’ text from an ex-lover in the wee hours of the morning, booty calls can come in all shapes and sizes—from the impulsive (and maybe intoxicated) voicemail at 2am to the long-winded email from someone...
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