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Breathe into pleasure – 5 tips to activate your sexual life force

“Breathe like your pleasure depends on it. Because it does.” Wise words from Sexologist and author of Urban Tantra, Barbara Carrellas, when explaining Tantra on the Curious Fox podcast.  But what does it really mean to breathe into pleasure? And how can we harness the breath work to heighten arousal, create deeper connections, and even trigger stronger orgasms?  Using...

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Top 5 reasons why couples seek relationship therapy

Many people find the prospect of any kind of therapy daunting, but relationship therapy can help you learn so much about one another—and yourself. For over 15 years I have had the privilege of guiding couples through transformational therapy that creates deep, meaningful change for them as individuals as well as their partnerships.  But when is the best time to seek expert...

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Safe porn websites

We often talk about ‘ethical porn’ in sex positive discourse, meaning porn in which the performers are paid fairly and treated well. Video, photos, audio porn, or erotica that you can enjoy as a consumer without worrying that you’re supporting toxic practices. But there’s more to an ethical porn experience than just knowing everyone who made it has been...

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A guide to sexual choking – and must know safety tips

It feels like everyone, and their grandma is into sexual choking these days. Even though this BDSM kink is anything but entry-level, it feels more accessible to because it does not require fancy tools, bits, or bobs in order to participate. You already have everything on your body you need to engage in this kind of play. Despite this...

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Seven sexy tips for Christmas on a budget

With the cost of living soaring and monies tight, we thought we’d share with you seven sexy tips and ideas for keeping things hot and spicy on a budget at Christmas. 1—Lingerie look up. Instead of buying new undies… why not take a good rummage in your own drawers and wardrobes? We all hoard the odd pair of sexy...

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