Most of us have heard the term in some capacity, but how many of us know what it actually means? If pushed, those that aren’t massively familiar with the term would be able to identify a Kegel as something that relates to stopping the need to pee when you sneeze. Or, more in line with our desire for the...
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This article is a follow on from my previous one, where I discuss penis pleasure. And what’s the end-goal of most masturbation? Orgasms. Penis orgasms aren’t quite as basic as you think – and the more you explore, the more to learn. So, let’s me talk you through a few steps I’ve learned over the years, from my own...
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You may be familiar with that tingle and rush if someone runs their fingers through your hair or nibbles at that spot just behind your ear. Or do your knees go week when someone lightly peppers your inner elbow with their fingertips? How about that spark of electricity cascading in torrents if someone kisses your shoulders. What on earth...
Read MoreMost of us thoroughly enjoy the experience of an orgasm. Besides the pleasurable feel, there are a bunch of other benefits too. A positive boost to your mood, clearer skin and even better bone health are just a few bonus extras. Orgasms can potentially relieve pain, strengthen your pelvic floor and even increase body confidence. The paybacks are huge so...
Read MoreLubricant use for sexual pleasure is at an all-time high! People are realising it enhances sexual play and is not just for those pelvic or prostate exams. The stigma of using lubes is over – you do not need to have vaginal dryness or any other condition to use it. The main job of lube is to ease any...
Read MoreWhen we think and talk about sex, often the focus is about what’s going on in between our legs. When in fact we know that the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain, and one of the most critical ways of using it, is our mouths. So it’s no surprise that experts in the relationship therapy space...
Read MoreIt’s time we threw a very harmful myth out with the trash: Women like sex less than men do. The idea that women like sex less than men is rooted in a lack of proper understanding of HOW female sexual desire works. It has nothing to do with a woman (or vulva-owner’s) ability to experience sexual pleasure and orgasm....
Read MoreI remember the first time I had oral sex. Boy was I naïve! He was barely twenty, had been obsessed with porn and now wanted me to get face-fucked. Little me, barely legal, had no clue and agreed that he could ram his cock into my face. It even sounded kind of cool. Not surprisingly, it turned out to...
Read MoreOften we think of two main orifices when it comes to sex, but what about our mouths? The term “dirty talk” is a vague one. Does it mean demeaning someone? Calling them a dirty cum slut? Is it more of romantic erotic literature or a reputation of ‘you like that’s?’ Dirty talk sometimes feels like sexual improv, which can...
Read MoreWhat is cunnilingus? Cunnilingus is the act of sexually stimulating the vulva with your mouth. It can be a deeply intimate act and can require some trust and communication between both (or more) parties to enable a truly toe-curling orgasm. It can also be called in more casual terms pussy eating, rug munching, and muff diving, all in reference to...
Read MoreFirstly, what the hell is pegging? Pegging is a sex act where a person wearing a strap-on penetrates another anally. Typically the person being penetrated has a prostate, though any individual can be pegged or do the pegging. The term ‘pegging’ was only recently introduced as a name for the act, which didn’t even have a definition in the...
Read MoreIf you have been considering exploring the sensation and pleasure anal sex can bring, here are some wonderful top tips to put you fully in the picture to ensure your first time is a positive experience. Hygiene preparation for pleasurable anal sex Take time to plan your anal session – schedule it in and let the anticipation build for...
Read MoreThere is not enough attention paid to the vulva and we’ve decided that’s cancelled. I think I can speak for every sex educator on Earth when I say that if I hear one more person call the entire female genital structure a ‘vagina’, I am going to scream. I would gladly stay in quarantine for another 6 months to...
Read MoreMentioned as ‘female semen’ in the Kama Sutra, squirting has been around for a very long time but still seems shrouded in mystery. We decided to delve deep and uncover some facts from Lola Jean a sex educator and squirting World Record Holder. What is squirting? Earth-shattering, leg shaking, breathless, soaked, saturated and exhausting orgasm. That’s what you want...
Read MorePreparation and hygiene Wash your hands and make sure the nails on the fingers you intend to use are clean and clipped, or at least filed smooth with no ragged edges. If your lover is prone to squirting pop some towels underneath you both. Get some nicely warmed lube close to hand. Start with the mind and other erogenous...
Read MoreUsually worn at the base of the shaft, their fundamental function is to hold your penis tight, and this leads to a firmer hard cock and fuller erection. Not only can this prolong the action, but it can also enhance pleasure for all parties involved. Also referred to as penis rings, I am a fan of these gorgeous toys....
Read MoreFellatio, blow jobs, head, oral, whatever you call it, we want to know if we’re doing it right? Fellatio is the act of sexually stimulating a penis with your mouth—sounds simple enough right? Turns out there are many more tricks to blow jobs and giving your lover the best head of their life. It could be a simple switch...
Read MoreFrolicMe author PJA Woode shares his experience of body orgasms. There aren’t many occasions in my life when I’ve been genuinely amazed. But one of those times was when I had my first body orgasm several years ago. I thought that people who claimed they had experienced them were kidding themselves. I didn’t really think they were genuine. They...
Read MoreYou watched porn with a spanking scene you can’t stop thinking about. Maybe your partner smacked your bottom during sex. Or maybe you’ve read enough erotica, had enough conversations, and masturbated enough to know that you want to be spanked. But how do you bring it into your relationship? Where do you begin, and how do you do it...
Read MoreJust what it is about hotels that make us think of hot dirty sex? Can we use a little trip away to spice up our own sex lives? We say, yes, absolutely! There’s something about being in a room where you are completely anonymous. No family photos stare out from their frames, no dirty washing festering under the bed,...
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