Ever since I saw Peter Greenaway’s movie, Drowning by Numbers, I’ve been fascinated by ice play and sex. There’s a part where Juliet Stevenson is penetrated by an ice lolly. It isn’t graphically depicted, just hinted at, but it left a big impression on me. It is an unexpected, highly erotic scene in the movie, as the couple involved...
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From petit pecks on the cheek to full-on tonsil tennis, kissing plays a variety of roles in our intimate human connections. This can include platonic greetings, affectionate friendships, romantic bonding, passionate sexual expression, sexuality exploration and even queer protest. Fear not this guide to kissing will cover it all. We kiss in many types of ways, for many different...
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Why watch masturbation? Well, the reason we have such a large collection of masturbation videos, particularly featuring women pleasuring themselves, is that humans simply love to watch! But there are other benefits too. Watching someone masturbate, especially your lover is not only erotic, but it can also be educational. You get to see how their body responds to a...
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It feels like everyone, and their grandma is into sexual choking these days. Even though this BDSM kink is anything but entry-level, it feels more accessible to because it does not require fancy tools, bits, or bobs in order to participate. You already have everything on your body you need to engage in this kind of play. Despite this...
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You may already be au fait with the delights of the derriere, but if you are curious, we thought we’d feature the joys of anal fun and how to use a butt plug. Firstly, the term ‘butt plug’ is such an unsexy name for what can be a truly sumptuous sensual experience. Put simply; a butt plug is a...
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Prostates are finally getting their time in the sexual sun in recent years as our concept and understanding of pleasure continue to broaden beyond penis-in-vagina sex. What is the prostate? Often referred to as the ‘G Spot for penises’, prostate stimulation is touted as a way to experience more intense orgasms, but that’s not the only reason you should...
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Sometimes their ass looks good enough to eat, doesn’t it? And I say: EAT IT. Rimming is one of my personal favourite sexual activities. It quenches parts of my mind-body-and-soul that I didn’t know existed before I’d tried it. For those of you who aren’t privy to what I am talking about, ‘Rimming’ (or ‘Analingus’, by dictionary definition) is...
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When you think of foreplay, you may imagine steamy windows and heavy breathing, hands and lips touching everywhere. We easily describe these acts as foreplay. After all, the traditional definition of the word, according to the Oxford Dictionary, is “sexual activity, such as touching the sexual organs and kissing, that takes place before people have sex.” And here’s where the problem...
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Most of us have heard the term in some capacity, but how many of us know what it actually means? If pushed, those that aren’t massively familiar with the term would be able to identify a Kegel as something that relates to stopping the need to pee when you sneeze. Or, more in line with our desire for the...
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You may be familiar with that tingle and rush if someone runs their fingers through your hair or nibbles at that spot just behind your ear. Or do your knees go week when someone lightly peppers your inner elbow with their fingertips? How about that spark of electricity cascading in torrents if someone kisses your shoulders. What on earth...
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Lubricant use for sexual pleasure is at an all-time high! People are realising it enhances sexual play and is not just for those pelvic or prostate exams. The stigma of using lubes is over – you do not need to have vaginal dryness or any other condition to use it. The main job of lube is to ease any...
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When we think and talk about sex, often the focus is about what’s going on in between our legs. When in fact we know that the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain, and one of the most critical ways of using it, is our mouths. So it’s no surprise that experts in the relationship therapy space...
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It’s time we threw a very harmful myth out with the trash: Women like sex less than men do. The idea that women like sex less than men is rooted in a lack of proper understanding of HOW female sexual desire works. It has nothing to do with a woman (or vulva-owner’s) ability to experience sexual pleasure and orgasm....
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I remember the first time I had oral sex. Boy was I naïve! He was barely twenty, had been obsessed with porn and now wanted me to get face-fucked. Little me, barely legal, had no clue and agreed that he could ram his cock into my face. It even sounded kind of cool. Not surprisingly, it turned out to...
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Often we think of two main orifices when it comes to sex, but what about our mouths? The term “dirty talk” is a vague one. Does it mean demeaning someone? Calling them a dirty cum slut? Is it more of romantic erotic literature or a reputation of ‘you like that’s?’ Dirty talk sometimes feels like sexual improv, which can...
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What is cunnilingus? Cunnilingus is the act of sexually stimulating the vulva with your mouth. It can be a deeply intimate act and can require some trust and communication between both (or more) parties to enable a truly toe-curling female orgasm. It can also be called in more casual terms pussy eating, rug munching, and muff diving, all in reference...
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Firstly, what the hell is pegging? Pegging is a sex act where a person wearing a strap-on penetrates another anally. Typically the person being penetrated has a prostate, though any individual can be pegged or do the pegging. The term ‘pegging’ was only recently introduced as a name for the act, which didn’t even have a definition in the...
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If you have been considering exploring the sensation and pleasure anal sex can bring, here are some wonderful top tips to put you fully in the picture to ensure your first time is a positive experience. Hygiene preparation for pleasurable anal sex Take time to plan your anal session – schedule it in and let the anticipation build for...
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There is not enough attention paid to the vulva and we’ve decided that’s cancelled. I think I can speak for every sex educator on Earth when I say that if I hear one more person call the entire female genital structure a ‘vagina’, I am going to scream. I would gladly stay in quarantine for another 6 months to...
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Mentioned as ‘female semen’ in the Kama Sutra, squirting has been around for a very long time but still seems shrouded in mystery. We decided to delve deep and uncover some facts from Lola Jean a sex educator and squirting World Record Holder. What is squirting? Earth-shattering, leg shaking, breathless, soaked, saturated and exhausting orgasm. That’s what you want...
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