Many years ago, when I first read about orgasm denial, my initial reaction was to furrow my brow and mutter “Okay … but why?”. Initially, I could not relate, I couldn’t get my head around why anyone would purposely not orgasm or be so cruel as to not allow their partner to come! I was raised by a generation...
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There’s been some discussion recently about scheduling sex and if that works. Does it just ruin the spontaneity? Or does it give time to plan, the mental foreplay adding to the spice earlier on? One area that scheduling time for and planning ahead is a great idea is anal sex. It does require some preparation especially if you haven’t...
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“Being on the receiving end of a serious spanking creates focus, drowns out all the noise and pumps out happy hormones for better sleep and creative thinking.” Depending on your sexual tastes, you’re either nodding enthusiastically right now or frowning in incredulity. If the latter then you’re not alone. In the past, you’d have been hard-pressed to find the...
Read MoreRediscover fingering as it is such an underrated sex act, often consigned to the memory of first time erotic fumblings or teenage shenanigans. Bizarre when you realise, that fingering can be one of the most intimate and pleasurable experiences you can have with another person. It can often be forgotten as part of the sexual encounter—or even the conclusion of...
Read MoreRings have graced fingers for millennia. Digits just lend themselves to adornment—they are long, elegant and expressive. It’s only natural to add a piece of jewellery to them. And you can read so much about someone’s personality by a glance at their hands. A statement ring on an index finger might suggest artistic flair, a thumb ring might suggest...
Read MoreEdging is the art of being sexually aroused to the brink of orgasm but halting stimulation just before the actual release. By doing this repeatedly the pleasure sensations build and build making the final glorious climax a stronger and more satisfying experience. The key is to stop at the perfect point so that you’re constantly ‘on the edge’ of...
Read MoreWord on the high street is that we are finally realising the value of using lube. What was once only a product known by a single brand, predominantly viewed for medical needs, lubricants have now grown into a serious player in the world of pleasure. Lube now offers sensual, luxurious textures that remove the friction and provide deliciously arousing...
Read MoreSuch a simple act in itself, but I admit I do love to bring a few toys into play, and restraints during sex in particular can work so well as a means of adding that little extra kink and excitement to your fun. I say that from knowledge, experience and generally how I see it when we plan a...
Read MoreWhy is an interesting question and not such a straight forward one. Are there more girls enjoying the lips of others, oh most definitely yes. I know that many girls like to play with their own gender because they feel it a turn-on, allowing them to break sexual boundaries. However women’s views and experiences over the past 20 years...
Read MoreThere is no doubt that 50 Shades of Grey has certainly got us all the more inquisitive about adult bondage, discipline and dominance within our own sexual pleasures. Bondage or the letter “B” is just one aspect of BDSM, a reason for one partner to tie up the other so they may gain pleasure in submission, with the transfer...
Read MoreI love reading all the coverage EL James has created on female submission with her book 50 Shades of Grey, but are we really so shocked to learn of a woman’s erotic sex stories and her writings of bondage, whips and butt plugs? It certainly has not been the first time that it has created controversial opinions but women...
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