When you think of kink and BDSM, you probably think of it as a partnered activity. It’s certainly true that some kinky activities require a partner, or are at least easier with another person involved. However, this probably applies to far fewer activities than you might think, there are plenty of solo BDSM ideas to be enjoyed alone. But what...
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“Confidence is sexy!” You’ve almost certainly heard some variation on this phrase at some point. Perhaps you’ve heard that it doesn’t matter how you look or how experienced you are in the bedroom, as your confidence is the main thing that will turn your partner on. I’m a big fan of sexual confidence. In my experience, it can both make...
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The first pornography I ever saw was lesbian porn. I didn’t go looking for it. It was 2006, I was sixteen years old and using my boyfriend’s computer while he was out at work. I noticed he’d left a tab open, went to close it, and… there on the screen was a full-on, hardcore girl-on-girl scene. I couldn’t look...
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Polyamory is getting a lot of airtime in the media lately. Five years ago, you could say “polyamory” in an average room full of people and get nothing but blank looks in return. (Believe me, I did. Many times.) A decade ago, this was even truer. But, having been featured in mainstream media as diverse as a New York...
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Sex toys are an amazing addition to your sex life, whether you’re single, dating, happily partnered or anything in between. But there are literally thousands of options out there on the market, and choosing can be daunting, to say the least. Never fear – this guide will take all the mystery out of choosing a sex toy, whether you...
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