How to suck his balls

Testicles are often seen as sensitive and easily damaged, but they can be an incredible source of pleasure if treated in the right way. One of those ways is to suck them as part of your blow job technique. Incorporating ball-sucking into your routine will set you up to give the best blow job your partner has ever had.

Again, if this is something your lover hasn’t experienced before, a little reassurance and gentle encouragement beforehand is a must. Let them know how much it excites you to be trusted in this way.

Ask your partner to open their thighs, and depending on whether they are sitting or lying down, make sure you have good access to their whole area from the penis to the perineum.

Hold the shaft

To make sure you have control of the area and to give your lover the confidence to trust you and relax and completely give over to the pleasure of having their balls sucked, holding the shaft helps anchor you both into the situation.

You can also move your hand slowly up and down to raise and lower the balls too. This will help you find the right position that allows comfortable access.

Light licks

Just as with the tip of the penis, start with light licks to stimulate the skin. You might find the scrotum contracts and the testicles ‘pull up’ or tighten. Ease and coax them gently back to relaxation by opening your mouth wide and tipping your head to the side to have your mouth cover the ‘root’ or perineum just under the balls. Holding steady there with your jaw fixed loosely around this area while you roll and undulate your tongue will really give your lover a treat. Cup the area in the ‘crook’ of your palm between the thumb and index finger to cradle the balls as your mouth moves up towards them.

Open your mouth

The best advice here as you inch your way to their testicles is to open your mouth wide and allow the saliva to spill out as you make your way to the first ball. Gently and slowly, take the testicle into your mouth. Be still and calm, and let it relax and sink into your mouth before you even make any movements. Once you feel you are both settled and you have the ball in your mouth, slowly begin to use your tongue, feeling your way around the smooth surface beneath the soft outer, fleshy sac. Keep checking in with your partner, stopping occasionally and looking up if possible. You must establish a signal or safe word that you know will mean you have to either stop or take it slower. Communication and consent is key here. Licking your partner’s balls can leave them feeling vulnerable, so be sure you give them the confidence to stop when they need to.

Rolling a ball around in your mouth is also very sensual for the giver. Taking notice of all the nuances or how the flesh tightens and then releases is fascinating and can ultimately be a very big turn-on for you, too.

Some people enjoy just the soft sensation of a warm mouth, but do check in with your partner if they may also enjoy the sensation of teeth scraping across their soft skin. Remember to be delicate and gentle, so good control is needed, but it can add another dynamic to the sensation. Remember too, not to forget the second one!

What is tea bagging?

Another technique for playing with testicles is often referred to as tea bagging, an oral sex act where the scrotum is dipped in and out of the partner’s mouth. It visually depicts an act similar to dipping a tea bag in and out of water. Due to the scrotum being so nerve-dense, they are highly sensitive, and any pleasure such as this directed to the testicles can be a highly arousing form of oral play.

The giver also can be sexually stimulated in the act of being so submissive in their worshipping of their partner’s genitals in such a manner, allowing their mouth to be the source of such pleasure. It is a different style of oral sex that allows the receiver to be in a more dominant power play role.

Gentle massage

Gentle is the keyword here. Licking balls is an art form, bringing together vulnerability, trust, intimacy and pleasure, so thinking of it as a massage can help to slow things down and take your time. Testicles are very delicate, and if they have been treated too roughly, the owner might not realise until the ache sets in later, so you really have to keep this part of the blow job as careful and present, sensual and slow as you can.