Best blow job positions

Our bodies work in very different ways, so we have to understand what is the best blow job position for you. Here are some suggestions but ultimately, experimentation will bring you to personal preference and success. The giver and receiver’s comfort must be taken into account so that no injuries occur and maximum satisfaction is achieved.

Kneeling blow job position

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Possibly the first place your mind goes to when thinking of blow job positions is the giver kneeling before the receiver. It is a perfect starting position and only needs a few adjustments to make it work for you. If your partner is very tall and your face barely reaches their thighs when you’re kneeling, you might request that they sit down on a chair or the end of the bed. The bed is a good option if you’re planning a bit of ball licking, as they can lie back onto the mattress and open right up for you. The alternative, if your lover likes the idea of standing and having you kneel before them, is to either have them spread their legs to lower their height or add a cushion or small kneeling stool beneath your knees. Comfort is key to the perfect blow job for both parties, so don’t skip this part. You don’t want to be surprised by the crick you’ll have in your neck the next day if you don’t get the positioning just right.

This is also a great position for maintaining eye contact with your partner throughout or an occasional look-up during play to keep each other in focus. This is also perfect for them to guide your head, perhaps wrapping your hair in their fist to hold you in place while they pump slowly in and out, switching who is in control back and forth between you. The other advantage is the ease of access to your own pleasure zones. For the more ambitious or experienced, you can place a dildo beneath you and take pleasure of your own or masturbate while you suck off your lover.

Lying down blow job position

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Lying down can make for a very sensual and attentive blow job. You can lavish all the oral adoration on your lover while they give themselves over to pleasure. It might feel more comfortable for both of you than the standing position, and there is a difference in the power exchange here if that is part of your sexy play together. This position is very fun if you’re thinking of a full sensual experience, with perhaps adding a blindfold or other naughty touch to heighten the experience. You might find that in a lying down position, it’s easier to perform your blow job from the side, so you don’t ‘pull’ their erection into an uncomfortable angle. The great thing about this is if the action becomes very heated, you can also turn to face the other way and hover your own sex over their face as you straddle them for a lovely sixty-niner.

Side-by-side blow job position

For a side-by-side blow job position, think of sitting in your parked car, watching the sunset together, and you lean over to get down on your partner. Or you might be watching a film and wanting to spice things up. Either way, this is a great position to have some fun. Unlike the lying down position, you don’t need both hands to support your own weight so that all important hand action can come into play again.

This position suggests a quickie or spontaneous blowjob, perhaps somewhere a little risqué, so make sure you’re both comfortable about that, and if giving a blow job in this way is a little bit on the naughty side, prepare for climax sooner than you might think.

Thigh pillow blow job position

This position is when you lie sideways, top-to-toe, and place your thigh under each other’s head to make a ‘pillow’. This can lead to some glorious double oral sixty-nine or just give one person a bigger relaxation. Perfect double blow job opportunity if two penises are involved. It can also mean your neck is cradled and supported, allowing you to concentrate fully on giving (and possibly receiving) the perfect blow job.

Face fuck blow job position

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Face fucking sounds fairly brutal, but it’s basically a position that will allow for some very deep oral penetration. Because of this, it can be a very intense experience for all involved, so be sure to communicate your desires and boundaries for this position before you start. The person receiving the blow job carefully straddles the chest of the person giving. It might be a good idea to put pillows under your head and neck to allow for a better angle of entry. The benefits of this position are that the movement and rhythm come from the person receiving the blow job. The ‘giver’ is taking all the thrusting so good signals must be made and noticed to avoid any risk of choking. The person receiving the head is essentially in a position of power, and as they will be doing the thrusting and penetrating, so it is definitely one where a lot of trust is involved. But the results can be incredible and very horny. 

Lay back blow job position

The lay back blow job position is also quite advanced and similar to the face fuck above. The giver lies on their back on a bed with their head tilted over the edge to face the penis ‘upside down’. This position really opens up the throat, so you might want to secure your hands on your partner’s hips so you can control the depth if things get a little raunchy. This is a great position for the person you’re giving the perfect blow job to view your entire body and how performing head affects you. You could be naked and masturbate along with the action to ramp up the heat.