It’s our favourite time of the year, Masturbation May! As we come to the end of this sexy self love celebration, you might be feeling like you need a little bit of inspiration or masturbation tips to make your solo pleasure fun again!
Get rid of those perfunctory fumbles and get into our silly, sexy ways to elevate your single shenanigans with some ideas to keep you coming back to you, over and over again!
I have made it my business to try out many of these little gems (you are very welcome) and it is my (and hopefully your) pleasure to share how I’ve incorporated a bit of naughtiness into my self love pleasure to keep my masturbation fun, light-hearted and my mood topped up with oxytocin and all those good feeling hormones.
Clit stim toys for extra pleasure
First of all, let’s talk about our tiny little friends, the clit stim toys! They come in the most stunning shapes and colours, and the Rosebud even managed to go viral on TikTok, so we know you know about those! We feature this little thrilling budlet in our recent solo self-pleasure film, where our starlet, Angelika, shows you exactly how and where to place the Rosebud.
Clit stim pleasure has been revolutionised over the past ten years with so many innovations and inventions to keep us on our orgasmically pointed toes! A very similar range of toys is the Unihorn Range—a very cute and colourful collection of tiny little pony-shaped toys with added pleasure appendages. There is, of course, a nostalgic aspect to these as they are similar to My Little Ponys in feel and appearance, so you can instantly connect on that deeper level emotionally. Some might like that familiar connection and might also be drawn to having to try out every single one! *coughs* You can check out my full review of the Unihorns here. Each model has a different motion—from a suckling nozzle very much for grazing on your clit—to a rotating bead or tiny flicking tongue.
You can experiment with different ways to use them, and they are great for trying in combination with each other to get the ultimate blended orgasm. Because the neck is arched, the ‘nose’ can hook into different spots like the G-spot or just inside the vagina, offering very intense sensations.
The rosebuds, too, have all of these different function choices, so you really can go to town as you select your favourite way to make your masturbation fun again!
If you like a little bit of penetration with your fun-loving clit stim, you might be looking for a Snail Vibe! Yes, that’s right, a Snail Vibe! These ingenious vibrators are designed so that as you slide the ‘snout’ of the toy into your vagina, it unfurls and the mechanics of the ‘shell’ means that contact always remains on the clitoris regardless of how shallow or deep you thrust. It’s a great toy, and you can apply plenty of lube to make it really glide.
Self love – think of lubes
You might not naturally think of using lube with your self love pleasuring—but it can be well worth experimenting alone to figure out what brand you might prefer and which kind suits your body best before using it in partnered sex. Self-knowledge is self-care! I am not a huge fan of lube (I know, I know) and had really never opted to try it while masturbating. However, when I found out about the next product… you’ll understand why I decided to give it a go…
Liquid vibrators! These are lubes that snap, crackle, and pop their way to your climactic heaven! When you try the samples in stores, you’re encouraged to pop a bit on your lips or tongue… well, my my… when I tried the Orgie orgasm drop…
You must be vigilant about your own bodily sensitivities and to a ‘patch test’ elsewhere—I definitely recommend dabbing on your lips and tongue first to determine if the sensation is right for you. I’ve always been a huge fan of fizzy sour sweets and popping candies, so putting something similar on my nethers was a no-brainer to me! Call me old fashioned… but always remember, high sugar content and other additives can disrupt your vaginal flora so please do take extra care with these products by checking ingredients and only choose those from sources you trust.
My favourite discovery for this is the Orgie brand, and there are so many lush items to choose from, as well as liquid vibes and lubes. The website states that this particular product, Acqua Croccante, is for massage purposes only and not to be applied to the genitals… well, I must not have read that part in the instructions and had quite a lovely time with these crunchy crackly sensations effervescing and popping all over me and my bits—definitely a made my masturbation fun that day!
Erotic stimulation – great for masturbation fun
Another great self love masturbation tip to make wanking fun but also to get you very much in the mood is to listen to our audio porn stories—why are they so great? Because you can put your headphones on, lie back and listen while leaving your hands free to focus on other areas. I’d certainly recommend Cheeky Fuck to enhance and inspire a very naughty self-exploration session! Just be sure to have all those rosebuds and unihorns to the ready…
And if visual stimulation is the best way to spark and ignite the flames of lust, we have an absolute belter of a film, Earthy Pleasures, featuring the glorious Asha, whose sheer dedication to making masturbation fun for herself is truly awe-inspiring. Tune in now to gather all the tips you can on how to enhance your vegetable-growing endeavours… Asha surely has green fingers when she arrives from a busy morning in the garden, her trug basket brimming with lush legumes and girthy squashes. A girl simply has to wonder how she’s going to occupy herself of an afternoon with such a bounty. A wonderful display of giving yourself over to your own love of pleasure and enjoying every second of it! I adore this film!
And what if you just love an audience?
Join Romy in this beautifully written story, Clitoral Joy, as she logs on to her webcam to perform the ultimate solo sex show. Sultry, sexy and confident, she celebrates her body and her audience as she teases and indulges, taking it slow to bring herself to orgasm as her fans watch… but as she looks from the window of her apartment, she sees the camera isn’t her only audience and the neighbours in the flats across the street and also enjoying the show. Far from deterring Romy, it builds her lust and confidence, and she truly lets go, inspiring her voyeurs to do the same. A fabulously sexy story where we’re all encouraged by Romy making her own masturbation fun and sharing the moment!
We have a whole erotic video category dedicated to the joys and wonder of solo sex—where you can peruse female masturbation videos and male masturbation movies to educate and inspire your own self love journey.
Self love sexual guides
Speaking of sexual education, we have an entire guide on female masturbation and how to pleasure your own body with tips and masturbation techniques to get the most out of your solo sex pursuits. Even the most seasoned wanker will find something new to take away from this piece. For me, I particularly took note of the point that mentioned how most people choose one side of the clitoris over the other and have probably favoured that side for a very long time. That certainly gave me food for thought and made me realise I’d become stuck in my one-sided ways! I paid particular attention to stimulating all parts of my clit to see whether I was missing out by not exploring—after all our bodies are in a constant state of change, so switching things up might bring surprising and even more orgasmic results.
While I did have a lot of fun, if memory in that moment of oblivion serves, I did revert automatically to my ‘usual’ spot, but it was certainly a worthwhile pursuit! And if it’s a male orgasm your chasing, please take read of our guide featuring solo pleasures for the penis. One of the most interesting tips which may not have occurred to you is sounding or urethral play—where you can stimulate the ‘pee hole’ gently leading to new sensations.
Conclusion
With so many incredible ways to spice up your sex life out there, it might feel a bit daunting to know where to start, especially if you think everyone else finds it all so easy! Rest assured, we all go through times of low libido, lack of self-confidence and general fatigue, which can make carving out time for yourself and your pleasure fall very much to the bottom of the list.
We hope this article has helped a little so you don’t feel pressured but inspired to explore your body and make self love fun again!